(SORRY FOR THIS BUT THIS IS LONG) Do i have a reason to be upset?

i was disgusted and horrified by what my poor ears heard today. a man died over the new year due to a liver damage. he used to work for our company and some people new the man. fair enough he wasnt the nicest person in the world as ive spoken to him many times before but have never met him before, but the least i expect from another human being is at least some form of condolence for his death. INSTEAD, all i had people say through out the day and all around me (different people for that matter) was how horrible he lived his life. every one lives, and everyone dies. it would be respectable to at least say what good he has done, no matter how little good has done. why do some people act like they live forever??? death comes to us all, to some sooner than others, to others more excruciating than others. how is it that a human being has no respect for life??? how is it, that another human being has nor remorse for the joy of death of another. if theres one thing i dont understand its this?? id like to believe this man murdered noone, all he ever did wrong was speak horribly to others. did he deserve to die for this?? i wouldnt have thought that. he had his reasons like any another person. so quick to be judgemental of him yet they have their own imperfect ludacris characters. noone judges them for it. i was shocked by such behaviour. never in my years of life have i seen such selfish behaviour. i know im not perfect and have my many weaknesses, but at least i have respect for life.at least i know when and how to respect life. why do some people act like they are heavenly beings when they know they are far from it. yes, like i said, i know i am not perfect. NOBODY IS. Tell me, did i have a reason to be upset?????