What would you do if you though your mother allowed baby to nurse on her when he was young?

Ok new answer then....... if your mother and you have tried counseling, and it's not working. It's affecting your parenting with your son, find someone else to baby sit your child, if you don't qualify for any istance then find a person to watch him for a reasonable price... i had a woman once watching my 2 children for 15 dollars a day, she got paid cash and didn't have to report it. I helped her out with some extra cash and she helped me out by letting me pay her what i could. Find a friend that is in a situation like this, or a friends older child!